I just finished reading this book, and honestly, I could have written it myself. Not because it’s obvious, but because everything Alisa Cohn shares aligns deeply with what I believe and practice every day with my clients.
Alisa is a business coach who has worked with numerous startup founders/CEOs. This book distills that experience into a practical, no-nonsense guide, full of real stories, concrete frameworks, and tips you can apply immediately. It’s an easy read: the ideas are clear, direct, and actionable.
Here are the themes that resonated most with me:
๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฝ ๐ถ๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ, ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ฒ๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฑ.ย That’s Alisa’s conclusion, and I couldn’t agree more. As she writes, “Leadership is an unnatural act. But you can learn it.” This is exactly what I tell every client who walks through my door, feeling like they should just know how to lead. You don’t. Nobody does until they do the work.
๐ ๐ด๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐๐ต ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด.ย The best founders don’t just build companies, they build themselves. Alisa is clear: if you don’t do the inner work, you’ll “hire yourself over and over again.” Your company becomes a mirror of your blind spots, with no one to cover for your weaknesses or fill the gaps. And that’s not just about you, it’s about building a team that complements who you are, not a replica of you. Growth starts with self-awareness, and it ripples outward to every hire you make and the culture you create.
๐๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ถ๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ ๐น๐๐
๐๐ฟ๐; ๐ถ๐’๐ ๐ฎ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐พ๐๐ถ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐. Alisa draws the parallel I love most: Olympic athletes don’t just train their skills; they train their mindset, and they do it with a coach. The same is true for leaders. Having a thinking partner who challenges you, holds up a mirror, and helps you close the gaps isn’t a “nice to have.” It’s what separates good from great.
Whether you’re a founder, a leader, or an entrepreneur at heart, this book is for you.
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A Must-Read for Founders, Leaders, and Entreprenurial Minds